How do you embrace imperfections?

Another way to see if Type 8 could be your primary type is to look at the triggers. One of them is that I don’t want to be betrayed. That is a certain igniter of my anger and my fierce energy if I feel betrayed. And I have to immediately go out and make certain

When I learned about the Enneagram and the pitfalls and relationship building it came to me: Oh, the Enneagram type 3 – we tend to treat relationships like a project. I realized maybe that is why all my past relationships at until that point failed. I gave them a timeline and KPI to meet.